Late … once again. Of course I am. Still haven’t gone to bed yet, and as my friend would say, I seriously need to pretend to be an adult. I have work tomorrow. I am happy though, because I did manage to actually add the widget to my Discord server on my home page, so, come chat!

This is the first in what will be a series of blog posts detailing how I have discovered my faith; from what I was raised with, and then moving onto what I have become. I shall start from the beginning, and most posts will go into more detail on particular topics. Comments and questions are welcome.


As you know, I was born in 1989; it was questionable whether I was going to survive or not, being born three months premature, though someone was obviously up there looking out for our family, because I survived a ton of odds with detached retinas, but nothing more severe than that, though it could have been. (one of those retinas reattached itself in 1991, though I have had buckles holding them in ever since. Either way, something happened, and in light of my early and surprising survival, my parents decided to baptize me in the Catholic religion. That worked out up until I started exploring different things myself once I began to enjoy reading.


2008 came, and after attending a summer program with a bunch of other students my age, I had a bit of a different outlook on what was possibly going on up there; not the cut and dry, black and white, view that I was given of religion as a child; who says that everything written in the Bible, (which I think was more than likely written by humans based on evidence discovered later on), is absolutely true? After all, there has to be a reason why many of the pre-Christian peoples believed in the legends that they did. I have a funny feeling that some of the creatures purported to have existed before the common era are real. Who’s to say that the creator God didn’t create beings other than humans and the animals we know today?

Needless to say, after 2008 and learning a few tips from some Wiccan friends, I made my own discoveries, as well, those being that I am an empath (had always been able to feel the emotions around me, but never could understand why. Now I do.) and that I can communicate with the spirit realm via my third eye without the years and years that it would normally take, say, a Buddhist monk. More on that later … (sit back, because this is going to be a long and involved series.) TLDR: Was raised a Catholic, only to discover that the prescribed doctrine didn’t sit well with me once I began to explore in light of the fact that my parents never put restrictions on what books or articles I could read as a kid. See you next time.

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Now I know why I need a Pleroma instance that I run. Because every single existing one out there, at least the new ones, require CAPTCHA. And worse, the aforementioned with no audio alternatives. That is not okay. So, “open communication for almost everyone” should be the slogan until this is fixed.

This conversation has been extremely common nowadays, more so even than in the not-to-distant past. At this point, I think I ought to weigh in on the subject, for it does bring us to an interesting point of view. I will first detail my thoughts on this, and I will then elaborate on several quotes from influencers to illustrate my point.

My Interaction With The Wider Community

In true style, I have all of my posts syndicated to other social media outlets; primarily to Twitter, and Micro.blog, and I prefer interactions from the latter, simply due to the fact that there are no likes, only conversations. I have quickly found that when interacting with people from MB, the conversation is a lot more elegant and bright; words are meaningful, whereas, when a post of mine gets interacted with on Twitter, it’s most often just a like or two. Likes don’t really matter, though there is that awareness for me that a post at least resonates with the liker … unless it’s a bot, which we will get to in a minute.

WordPress Interactions

As of late, I have discovered more of what I hope are actual people on WordPress.com taking a liking to the content I provide, yet I am finding it more difficult than not to tell whether those interacting with me are actual humans. I know that I have griped in the past about having to prove you are human to do things like sign up for a silo, but I am wondering whether or not it wouldn’t be a bad idea in some social settings, at least those that are supposed to be from actual people. Of course, there is no possible way of curbing all spam, for the management that would take would get overwhelming rather quickly. We wouldn’t have enough actual people to catch everything, and so I am more concerned that the interaction I am getting on WordPress is just spam. On occasion, I will actually look at the blog of the liker and at times, might find something mildly interesting, but nothing that peaks my interest all the way. The fact though that I find something here and there is a point in their favour, at least.

Experts Weigh In

Denis Xiao reached out to a few people in this industry, including Elena Salazar, the Social Media Program Manager at VMware:

is Elena’s take on how social media influences her, and how she thinks we can improve our engagement levels on various platforms. In some ways, she’s right. For some, likes become a reason for posting, rather than the quality of content, which opens up social media platforms to shitposting, flame wars, and so on. Irony is good, memes are good, but use them in the right context, the point that gets missed way too often nowadays.

Another thing to consider in order to gain value from your social media following? Follow people, not bots, unless you know what the bots do. Elena puts it thus:

In my opinion, Likes are just a vanity metric and distract from focusing on more valuable KPIs.

People can also get strongly attached to their Likes and feel like they are under-performing if they don’t get the number of Likes they were expecting. Likes do not necessarily correlate with conversions or sales, and can be a false indicator of post success — especially since a lot of Likes are from bots.

Exactly. as previously mentioned; those WordPress community likes and shares I have been getting on my posts of late? Do I have any way to tell that they are legitimate? Not really, unless there is a tool that I don’t know about or haven’t yet discovered, which can assist in finding the true identity of a user? (Maybe an itch for the indieweb, though how we could ever develop something like that without having to have people agree to submit their information, while the objective is, for most of us, at least, tracking users, is something to be avoided, except in particular circumstances. Not to mention, how could we do that without having to involve CAPTCHAs? Something that everybody hates, I am pretty sure.)

dennis then asks Amberly Dressler, the Brand Communications Manager at Episerver:

I like the spirit of it – lessening the impact Likes have on people’s (particularly young people’s) self-esteem and self-worth – but it will have business impacts.

Most savvy social media managers have become more sophisticated than using vanity metrics, but it could potentially change newsfeed algorithms once again.

If Likes are not used to measure a brand’s engagement, metrics such as shares or comments will likely be used.

It is likely business visibility in the newsfeed could be impacted. From a user perspective, that might not be a bad thing, but businesses will need to tweak their strategies to fit a Like-less world.

definitely. From the business prospective, something like this will be harder to achieve, though on a personal level, it does make sense. I, personally don’t care as much about the number of likes a post of mine gets as much as I care about the actual interactions; comments, shares, and so on, that it gets. Example. I have a YouTube post, published about seven or so years ago on my old Dell inspiron 1525, which didn’t make the YouTube community all that happy; instead of focusing on my content, they constantly focused on the horrible quality of the video, which has now made me have to disclose my blindness on each video I do to eliminate the majority of that, but that’s another post for another day; I could go on and on. That is an example of what not to see on social media, yet it persists anyway. Either way, my point? Use Metrics for what they were intended for, not as a measurement of self worth. Teens and young adults, I’m talking to you. Read dennis’s full article.

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